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Deservedly Reprimanded

After dinner tonight the hubby mentioned to me that he reads my blog every now and then (which I already knew). He was more than a bit concerned when he realized I had been telling people I was home alone while he was gone fishing in Canada. "Not smart" was a phrase I'm sure he uttered more than a time or two.

And you know what? He's absolutely right. It was more than "not smart", it was downright ignorant. Despite my over-developed sense of paranoia I announced to the entire blog-o-sphere I would be all by my lonesome. What the hell was I thinking? Although I would guess anyone reading this blog is harmless and has no desire to actually track me down, the possibility of some computer-savvy psycho running across my blog is more than possible.

So in the future I will keep such tidbits to myself until hubby is safely home again. Then I can post how my week or weekend alone went.

Go ahead and scold me. I know I was bad.

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  1. Eolande2:41 PM

    My husband is the same way, which is why I've never offered him the url of my blog.

    I don't care who knows I'm home alone. I can take care of myself, as well as he could. I don't, however, post pictures of my kids anywhere a lot of people would have access. I can't articulate why it worries me so much. It just does.

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  2. Joely Sue Burkhart3:40 PM

    It's hard to draw the line sometimes on what to share and keep silent, isn't it? I've gotten to where I don't even refer to the monsters by their names. I deleted all their pictures. I read somewhere about all the pedophiles surfing the net in seach of kid pictures and I about puked.

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  3. Anonymous9:20 PM

    It's alright Krista... we all make mistakes, and your okay now, aren't you?

    See? It's all fine. *nods* Come to think of it, I distinctly remember mention on my xanga that I was alone at my boss's house for three days over July 4th weekend.

    Eeh... I guess I made the same boo boo you did ^.^;;

    -Crystal

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  4. Krista Heiser8:47 AM

    Isn't it a shame that we can't share the most beautiful things in our lives because of the pervs that surf the net? I know I don't refer to my boys by their names very often and pictures are few and far between for that reason.

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  5. Eolande10:18 AM

    It is sad that we can't share pictures of kids. But if you think about it another way the traditional pedophile method in hanging out at schools or parks and I'm not going to stop taking my kids to school or the park.

    What is it about the internet that scares us so? Maybe the sheer number of people who could see the pictures, but then, how likely is it that any of them would be close enough to do any harm? I mean, it STILL would be easier to hang out at a park or school, wouldn't it?

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  6. Krista Heiser8:23 AM

    You know...you're right! I think the most important thing is to protect your identity and location. Not that an internet savvy individual couldn't figure it out but there's no sense in making it easy, is there?

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